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Studies have shown that 85-90% of
ordinary people experience intrusive thoughts or mental images that they
consider distressing or disruptive. Just because negative thoughts come into
your mind, that does not make you crazy or abnormal. What distinguishes normal
intrusive thoughts from psychotic or delusional thoughts is that the latter
involve a break with reality. For example, a psychotic person may believe that
the thought originates from a higher authority, such as Jesus Christ, and may
even hear the thought as an actual voice (auditory hallucination). The person
may then feel that he has no choice but to obey.
It is normal to have thoughts about
things you would not actually do. You will become needlessly anxious if you
attach great significance to the negative thoughts. If you have a negative and
impulsive thought like “I'm going to embarrass my boss in front of everybody,”
and then you say to yourself, “Because I have this thought, I'm a horrible
person” or “That was terrible of me,” you are going to be a lot more bothered
than if you can say to yourself, “It's just a thought, and I know I wouldn't
act on it.”
Source: The Anxiety Answer Book by: Laurie A. Helgoe, PhD, Laura R. Wilhelm, PhD, Martin J. Kommor, MD
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